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R.M.'s avatar

My driving instructor coached me through my first turns by saying: “you have to look at where you want to go, that way you will automatically steer in the right direction.” It feels like all lamenting on human being as evil doers is doing exactly that. It paralyses our good instincts. Social media and public chatter is inundated with this “oh we people are awful”. But we are also a species that take pleasure in forest walks, having communal meals, we start elephant sanctuaries and we think of ways to alleviate suffering of other all the time. Eyes on the road people, where do we want to go?

All this to echo the very point you are making! Loved this essay.

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Alice's avatar

Love this essay and I totally agree! I also think that this negative idea of humanity gives a justification for when we know that something isn’t right but want to give in to the ‘lazier’, more selfish, less kind path because in the moment it’s easier. It takes effort to build community, make responsible choices for the planet, and work on our own prejudices and areas of ignorance, and we’re constantly being encouraged by capitalism and divisive, individualistic politics to just not bother.

There are so many genuine reasons that people don’t have capacity for this, so I’m really trying to hold myself to account as someone who does - and it makes life so much better! I find that surrounding myself with people who inspire me to do better (IRL through community groups and in those whose work I follow), rather than consumerist content that encourages my most selfish impulses, really makes it easier to push myself bc it makes the ‘norm’ a higher standard.

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